Do cute clothes really make you look... more approachable? ?

You answered your own question. Wearing sloppy clothes makes you look....sloppy. Wearing cute clothes makes you look cute. Obviously. I don't know how people can stand stepping out of the house in a big huge sweatshirt, those ugly UGG slippers, and pajama pants. It makes you look like you don't care about yourself enough, or that you don't think you deserve to look nice. You can buy clothes that fit you for very cheap. Not having money is not a good excuse for not dressing yourself appropriately. I read everything you wrote because I STONGLY disagree with you on this. I know you are looking for people that agree with you, and I"m sorry...I don't. If you went to a job interview looking like that, you would not get the job because the girl in the nice clothes who actually look presentable would get it. It shows so many things to people when you take the time to make yourself look nice. I don't know why some people don't understand that. EVeryone judges a book by its cover the very first time they see you. Your looks are what matter at very first glance. We are humans. It's what everyone does and it's natural.